About Us

Healing is possible—and you don’t have to do it alone.

We support women walking through betrayal trauma with care, clarity, and grounded, faith-rooted guidance.

Whether you’re in crisis or beginning to rebuild, we walk with you—without shame, without pressure, always anchored in hope.

Our Story

My Restored Roots began when we saw countless wives blindsided by pornography and infidelity being told either to “pray harder” or pursue therapy that overlooked their faith.

We knew there had to be a better way.

Together, we created a safe, Christ-centered, trauma-informed space where a woman’s pain is honored, her nervous system gently calmed, and her voice always sets the pace for healing.

Here, you’re never rushed or dismissed; instead, you’re compassionately supported toward meaningful restoration.

Mission

We exist to support Christian wives who’ve experienced the deep pain of online betrayal—gently helping them heal, break free from generational patterns, and lovingly reclaim their God-given identity.

Through the Her Restored Roots Method, we guide you step-by-step, from the heartbreak of devastation to the beauty of destiny, empowering you to build a future rooted in truth, wholeness, and renewed purpose.

You're not alone; your story matters, and restoration is possible.

Our Guiding Values

Safety Before Solutions

We start by helping your body and heart feel safe—because true healing can only unfold when you feel secure and supported.

Sisterhood Over Secrecy

You don’t have to walk this journey alone; real healing thrives when you're connected with women who deeply understand and stand beside you.

Scripture + Science Together

We thoughtfully weave the powerful truth of scripture with trauma-informed tools, guiding you toward meaningful, lasting renewal.

Gentle, Shame-Free Pace

We meet you exactly where you are, offering compassion without rushing forgiveness or forcing reconciliation—your healing is sacred and personal.

Clarity That Creates Change

We provide clear, gentle steps forward—turning overwhelming uncertainty into meaningful progress, so that your healing begins today and shapes a legacy of lasting transformation.

Hi, I’m Christine

A trauma-informed therapist who believes healing is about coming home to who God says you are.

I support women navigating betrayal trauma, anxiety, and relational heartbreak using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and EMDR.

My approach is rooted in compassion, spiritual grounding, and deep emotional safety.

Whether you’re rebuilding trust after porn use, healing from emotional distance, or longing to feel seen and secure again—I’m here to walk alongside you.

Together, we’ll create space for the hard stuff, celebrate the small wins, and gently reconnect you with peace, clarity, and hope.

You’re not broken—you’re healing. And you don’t have to do it alone.

Hi, I’m Elliott

I founded My Restored Roots because I saw a deep need that was often overlooked—the wives who've faced betrayal through online explicit content.

As head of courses, coaching, and community offerings, my role is to gently guide women toward genuine healing, helping them reclaim their God-given identity and rediscover hope.

Through Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), I create safe spaces for restoration—continually advancing our community support system so you know you're not alone.

Restoration is real, redemption is possible, and your story isn't over yet.

Our Guiding Values

Safety Before Solutions

We start by helping your body and heart feel safe—because true healing can only unfold when you feel secure and supported.

Sisterhood Over Secrecy

You don’t have to walk this journey alone;

real healing thrives when you're connected with women who deeply understand and stand beside you.

Scripture + Science Together

We thoughtfully weave the powerful truth of scripture with trauma-informed tools, guiding you toward meaningful, lasting renewal.

Gentle, Shame-Free Pace

We meet you exactly where you are, offering compassion without rushing forgiveness or forcing reconciliation—your healing is sacred and personal.

Clarity That Creates Change

We provide clear, gentle steps forward—turning overwhelming uncertainty into meaningful progress, so that your healing begins today and shapes a legacy of lasting transformation.

Our Guiding Values

Our Guiding Values

Safety Before Solutions

We start by helping your body and heart feel safe—because true healing can only unfold when you feel secure and supported.

Sisterhood Over Secrecy

You don’t have to walk this journey alone; real healing thrives when you're connected with women who deeply understand and stand beside you.

Scripture + Science Together

We thoughtfully weave the powerful truth of scripture with trauma-informed tools, guiding you toward meaningful, lasting renewal.

Gentle, Shame-Free Pace

We meet you exactly where you are, offering compassion without rushing forgiveness or forcing reconciliation—your healing is sacred and personal.

Clarity That Creates Change

We provide clear, gentle steps forward—turning overwhelming uncertainty into meaningful progress, so that your healing begins today and shapes a legacy of lasting transformation.

Who We Serve

We may be a good fit for you if…

  • You've experienced a recent or repeated discovery of pornography or infidelity that's shattered your sense of trust and safety.

  • Your body feels stuck on high alert: maybe you've noticed your heart racing if he’s ten minutes late, or find yourself anxiously checking his phone at 3 a.m.

  • Church advice to simply “forgive and forget” has left you feeling misunderstood, unseen, or even ashamed for struggling.

  • You're craving connection with other women who truly understand the complicated intersection of trauma, Scripture, and the courageous work of setting healthy boundaries.

  • You deeply long to feel at peace in your own body again: regardless of whether your marriage ultimately survives or changes.

If this resonates with you, know that you're not alone. You are the brave hero of this journey; we're simply here to walk alongside you with compassion, clarity, and care.

Next Steps

Schedule your Healing Journey to receive your free 5-Day Betrayal Survival Kit and join a community that sees you, believes you, and walks beside you—every step, as long as it takes.

Not sure yet?

Book a free connection call with Christine or Elliott. Together we’ll explore your story and gently guide you toward the support that best fits your needs. You're not alone, and we're here to help.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is My Restored Roots?

My Restored Roots is a Christ-centered, trauma-informed space that helps Christian women heal after betrayal trauma. We combine emotional safety, grounded clinical support, and spiritual guidance to walk with you from devastation to restoration.

Who do you serve?

We support women who’ve experienced betrayal in marriage—especially from pornography or infidelity. If you’re feeling unseen, misunderstood, or overwhelmed by pain and church culture responses, this space is for you.

What makes your approach different?

We lead with compassion, clarity, and truth. We don’t rush or pressure you toward reconciliation. Instead, we help you stabilize, set boundaries, and rediscover your identity in God—whether your husband changes or not.

Do I have to be religious to join?

While our work is rooted in Scripture, you don’t need to have it all figured out spiritually. We welcome those who are wrestling, questioning, or simply searching for a safe place to heal.

Is your team made up of licensed professionals?

Yes. Our therapists and coaches are professionally trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), and trauma-informed care, offering you both clinical expertise and heartfelt support.

How do I get started?

You can begin by downloading the free Betrayal Survival Kit, joining our Rooted Collective Membership, or scheduling a free online session with Christine or Elliott to explore your next healing step